At the end of the day, I was about to go home when I saw this cute-looking girl in a leather jacket and big headphones on. Then I opened her and teased about living in her own musical world. The conversation went pretty well, a bit over 10 min.
The next day, after the meeting, she said she was going on a week-long vacation, which in my previous experience meant very little chance of getting her out.
Surprisingly, her answers moved in a great direction afterward, maybe a bit short, but we arranged a date a couple of days later. That week I had double booked a couple of dates, otherwise was going too crazy, so I actually rescheduled the date to some days later.
We met up on Saturday afternoon around 4 p.m. and went to the hipstery bar for some ciders. After a bit tried to do some question game, which she wasn’t super into, but still responded. We sat on the sofa next to each other and did some light physical escalation as well.
Afterward, we went to a hookah bar near my place. She was a bit wrong seating – she was a bit far away from on corner sofa so started showing her some movie trailers to move her closer. Spent a couple of hours there talking about random stuff, nothing too spicy, and we got so engrossed in our discussions that we completely forgot about that fun question game we had started earlier.
I tried to include some physical escalation – rings, hair, tattoos, and also a routine about holding her hands while looking into her eyes and counting to 20. But she could not laugh, and I couldn’t get any big reaction out of her.
I did seeding about movies and wine at my place which she seemed into, especially since she is a bit of a wine geek. After a mental struggle with myself led her to my place, she came without any resistance.
We watched a couple of movies and drank some wine back at mine. However, I had a really tough time getting to kiss her for some reason so nothing more than light kissing happened that night. Seeded for the next date some more movies & wine which she was into.
We arranged to meet back at mine next week, but she went sick, so met about 2 weeks after the 1st date. She came over with some wine. We watched a couple of movies while cuddling and a bit of kissing.
I tried to escalate a bit more by touching her ass and tits, etc. but I also had quite a struggle with it. She stayed over that night, but nothing much more happened. Afterward, I understood that she is a kind of shy girl who doesn’t show a lot of emotions, etc., and needs to be led, which kind of made sense of the situation.
I understood that I had quite a hard time with this girl and though she still seemed keen, needed to change something to get the lay. Thankfully a friend of mine was throwing one of his house parties that weekend, which usually turns into quite a sexual mood.
Some time into the party, we were making out heavily with the girl, touching each other quite a lot. etc. Later on, the party mood was turning quite sexual, into a possible orgy, but she wasn’t very much into it. So, I thought the reason was the lack of leading by example, and I decided to get her back to my place.
We arrived there around 4 a.m. but the vibe was a bit lost. After some time I understood that if I didn’t escalate quite heavy nothing would happen. So, I took her into my lap and started making out quite heavy and touching her all over the place which she was fine with, while slowly taking off our clothes.
That continued until we were both naked and of course, I couldn’t find the condom fast enough and afterward struggled to find the pussy with the condom, partly because of stress and being quite tipsy. Ended up changing a couple of positions and ended up with rock hard dick and not being able to cum.
In the conversation afterward, I understood that she had quite little experience with sex so far and that I was the first guy that stopped her on her street.
