When I arrived at the venue around 8:10 p.m. and waited until about 8:30 for her to arrive. I had been waiting a long time which was irritating but I didn’t show it since she seemed sincerely apologetic about being late.
However, she was a bit difficult to talk to because she was extremely anxious and mumbled a lot. And at that point, I remembered that Tom Torero said, “The girl feels what you feel”. So, although it was putting me off, I stayed cool and brought the energy down.
I did a bit of regular chit-chat chat then made it man-to-woman with a line I made up that has been working pretty well for me.
I said frankly: “I’m gonna need you to look away while I’m talking to you, I can’t concentrate when you look at me like that.”
Throughout the night, whenever I needed to spike things up I would just look at her eyes deeply and say “Shit, stop looking!” which she giggled to because that was a callback to an earlier spike.
I thought that physical escalation was pretty standard. Because when I asked her about tattoos, palm reading, and touching her hair, she was very open.
So, I went in for the kiss pretty early, about 20 minutes into the date because she was extremely receptive with hands. We had to rely pretty heavily on the Question Game for conversation because she was so anxious and mumbly that we kept disconnecting from rapport.
After a while, I suggested we go back to my place and watch a show I had seen earlier. She responded by saying “Actually, do you want to stay here for a little bit longer?”
And I know that was an indication that she was still not comfortable enough to come home with me. I bounced her to a second venue closer to my apartment and had another drink with her there. We sat by a fireplace and fluffed a bit more while I spiked with eyes and held her hand.
She became more and more receptive to the point where she was leaning against me and holding me with her arms. At that point, I decided I should bring her back.
Once we got back to my place I walked my dog with her to release a bit of pressure and after the walk, I brought her straight into my room to watch the show I had mentioned earlier. In the middle of the show, I started making out with her and it progressed into the lay, no LMR.