I have approached girls when I was shirtless and 98% of the time, they were not receptive. I have nice abs and I think they might think am trying to use my body to win them over even if the only reason am shirtless is coz it’s fucking hot and am sweaty.
Avoid banking solely on your physical appearance. Instead, put your faith in your vibes and energy, and embrace the energy and vibes you’re currently feeling. As long as you acknowledge this openly (yes, address the elephant in the room), the girl won’t be left wondering about any apparent inconsistency or disconnect.
Let me tell you my story:
Once, I had just landed in landed after an 8-hour flight. I was jet lagged and tired and not very social. Sat next to this very gorgeous girl in the tube and just complimented her dress (low energy compliment). I was fucking tired and irritable BUT, I told her at some point after complimenting her dress.
“Hey, I literally just landed and like super exhausted right now. but you seem pretty cool”, I said to her.
I put my number in her phone coz I didn’t have a UK number. She ACTUALLY (the first time ever in my life a girl texted me back) texted me back on WhatsApp later that day and we went on a date. Fucking gorgeous Swedish girl.
That was the lowest energy game of my life and I still pulled it off somehow.