I approached a two-set and immediately started a conversation with one of the girls while also engaging her friend in the discussion.
Both of them were very receptive to our conversation.
While I primarily focused on one of the girls, my buddy struck up a separate conversation with her friend.
I suggested that we split a bottle of wine on another day, and she agreed. The only issue was that she lived in Brooklyn, while I resided in Manhattan (which is noteworthy because the distance can affect the potential for a connection).
At some point, the friend of the girl we were talking to proposed that we join them and another girl at their place. However, I suggested they come to hang out on my rooftop instead. They were up for it but were waiting on one more friend. So, I left with my buddy.
About 10 minutes later, I returned and suggested that they come with us since I was walking back home.
They decided to come as soon as their friend arrived. I went home, and three hours later, they arrived. I also invited one of my other friends from day game to join us, as he had just successfully met another girl.
So, it ended up being four girls and three guys. We headed to the rooftop with our cups of alcohol. It was quite dark on the roof, so I was able to isolate and escalate with my girl. This played out well mainly due to the darkness.
The only issue was that one of the girls was without a guy, and after a while, she decided to head home. My “wingman” and his girl suggested they’d “walk” her to the train, which was essentially an excuse to leave together. My other buddy was already with the girl he brought, so he returned to his place. This left just me and my girl in my apartment. In the end, it worked out for all the guys 😁
Lesson learned from this case:
- Despite my initial intent of collecting leads, it was more effective to meet the girls while they were out doing nothing, especially since the girl I liked lived far away, making it challenging to plan another meeting.
- Earlier, I had encountered two other girls in a similar situation, but one of them was not a good fit. It wouldn’t have been suitable for my buddy, so I didn’t attempt to pursue both of them.
- Dealing with two sets has almost become second nature to me after three weeks of engaging with many of them. There’s no magic involved; I just talk about whatever interests me. For example, one of my conversations with these girls was about how the lockdown was a unique opportunity to explore intimacy in various unusual places because there were fewer people outside after 8 p.m.
- I usually handle multi-girl sets solo, but when I’m with a buddy, I set them up to talk to other girls if they show interest.