I met that girl at a shopping center, my 7th set of the day. I approached with a side stop, opening with “Excuse me, you looked very interesting, you look like you could be a scientist or artistic”.
The interaction was about 10 minutes long, nothing special, and a little boring. She said she doesn’t do anything for fun, just work and Netflix.
Texting her was a pretty one-sided teasing. I’d tease her and she would respond quite logically. The reason I believed she might still be into me was because she kept asking me questions about me. After a day of texting back and forth, I started to set up the date.
– What are your thoughts on drinks and witty banter with a cute boy?
She said:
– That sounds kind of nice, but I don’t know…
I took this as a sign that she was willing but wanted me to lead it there, so I set up plans.
On the day of the date, she had not texted me back and my previous experience was telling me that she was getting cold feet. So I sent her a picture of me and my dog.
Then, I texted her making sure to leave plenty of space to not come off too keen. I didn’t ask if she was still down for the date. Instead, I just sent her the address and time. She didn’t acknowledge the time and place, so I changed the time a little later to try and get her to acknowledge it. I was almost certain she would flake, but she didn’t in the end.
The first venue I chose was closed for a private event. Fortunately, I live in the heart of Hollywood and there are plenty of venues. I took her to a Hawaii-themed bar right down the street, trying to create a teasing back-and-forth banter, but it was kind of awkward at first.
I could tell she was pretty nervous about the date too. When we got to the venue, I took her hands in mine, looked at her very seriously, and said:
– Can I trust you to find a good seat for us? I’ll grab us a drink.
At that time, I saw the first green light, her fingers lingered on mine. She found us a couch which I took as a second green light. We vibed for a bit, palm-reading and tattoos.
She had a tattoo of her mom’s voice on her arm and she started talking about how her mom was ill. I figured this is a terrible vibe killer so I immediately started the question game.
After a while of playing, I stopped talking and started looking around the venue and bobbing my head to the music. We were quiet for like a minute and the tension was killing me.
She re-initiated the conversation by asking more questions, and then told me that I made her nervous. I took this as the perfect moment to go in for a kiss. Luckily, it was a success.
I wasn’t sure what to do next, so I went into the bathroom to recollect my thoughts and think about what I could do next.
I then took her to the second venue, which was louder than I expected, but it gave me an excellent reason to get close. Most of what happened in there was a blur. We talked minimally. I just got close, incidental touches on the legs and shoulders, playing with her hair and telling her she smelled good. We had been talking about a movie she should watch, so I suggested we watch it back at mine.
She was quite hesitant, saying “Umm ok….” but I had come too far to second guess the decision. I said “Alright, come on! Let’s go!” and led her out of the venue to my place, a 2-minute walk.
Once we got there, I let her relax in my living room for a bit before leading her to the bedroom where my bed is situated as the only place to sit in front of the television. I turned something on and invited her to come lay with me to which she complied.
From there, after watching some more TV, I told her her hair smelled incredible and pulled her toward me for a heavy makeout. She pulled away and said she was on her period. I said, “OK, I don’t mind taking it slow”. We were back to more TV. I pulled her hair to which she said “You’re making this very hard,” looking me deeply in the eyes. To which I started making out again, this time, pants off. Success.
Tip to you guys: Burying your face in a girl’s hair towards her neck seems to turn them on.