In the interim between the first and second date she sent me a text that said something like “You are very cute and I want to have sex with you.”
I invited her straight over to my place and took her to my bed. I figured she must be a virgin so I asked her again.
And you know what she said? She said: “Yes, I am!”
I had a bit of a moral conundrum because I wasn’t sure if she knew what was going on here. Because I didn’t want her to believe that this was a “relationship scenario” and that she was going to lose her virginity to a man who was in love with her.
I believed she was thinking this way because she seemed naive and had never been on a date before. Thus, I told her that I see other people and that she should consider whether she wants to lose her virginity to me.
Although I know this is pretty chodey and self-sabotaging, I saw it like fishing. If you’re fishing in a river and you catch a baby fish that can barely swim, it’s an existential courtesy to throw it back.
Anyway, that backfired and she said she was offended that I accused her of not taking her virginity seriously.
In the end, she didn’t care if I was seeing other people and we ended up having sex.
The lesson I learned from this lay is that she was not naive about the situation. Instead, I was naive about the sexual nature of women.
Perhaps, even though she didn’t see it, she was completely aware of what was going on and just wanted to get laid with a complete stranger with no strings attached.
Not every woman wants a Disney romance for their first time.
It is not my place to “white knight” to the purity of a girl. I am here to simply play the game genuinely and provide a valuable sexual service.